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Friday, January 26, 2018

Stress You Don't Need Leading Up To The Big Day

When you’re heading full speed towards one of the biggest days of your life, things are going to be
tense enough already. You don’t need the stress that often comes with wedding planning, but many
brides simply don’t know how to stop it. Here, we’re going to look at the sources of stress leading up
to the big day and what you can do about it.


Battling alone?
Organizing a wedding is always going to be something of a hassle, but it can become a nightmare
when a bride is left to do it all alone. Make sure that your future spouse is taking their fair share of
the work by splitting the duties between you. Ensure that your bridesmaids don’t forget that they
have real wedding duties to fulfill, too. Planning a wedding is simply too much for one person to
do it all on her own, so don’t let yourself become the bridezilla.


Forgetting your relationship?
The project of planning a wedding is a big one that will consume a lot of your time and energy.
However, it’s important to not let it get too much in the way of your relationship with your fiancĂ©.
You can risk feeling more like colleagues on a joint project than a couple. Spend time
talking with your groom, ensuring that you’re both as emotionally and mentally prepared for the
big day. Don’t forget to spend some time showing one another affection and simply spending time
with one another, too. Don’t lose focus on what this is all about in the first place.


Where’s the money coming from?
The notion of the bride’s parents paying for everything isn’t as common as it once was, and many
might see that as a change for the better. However, money can be a serious stress. The best way
to get on top of it is to set a full budget in advance and fund it before you start spending a penny.
If you don’t want to save for a long time, bad credit installment loans can stop your financial needs
from holding back the wedding for too long. Seriously consider your priorities when dictating how
much of the budget goes on certain elements of the wedding, too.


Nervous about your in-laws?
In part, your future spouse should play a big role in helping to establish a relationship between you
and your in-laws. However, you have to put in some effort, especially with your mother-in-law.
Sometimes, this battle just can’t be won, and you have to settle for being civil. But make a genuine
attempt to build a bond with your mother-in-law. Asking her if she would like to be included in a
specific task regarding the wedding could set you off on the right foot.

You’re not going to be able to solve every dilemma yourself when your wedding day is around the
corner. If something’s stressing you out, rely on your partner and your bridesmaids. Giving you a
shoulder to cry on and a caring ear is part of their job, too.


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